No toxic people needed around you!!


When speaking or writing (nonfiction), there's no subject I enjoy as subject. Why this? It's just easy to decode through observable data that sometimes don't need to be fetched from so remote places, distant individuals.
It's around you, but most importantly within you. As you are not a hermit to live and make everything happen on your own, you are required to move in a team.  For the target is crucial, this team needs to have some specificities that don't lie. It's not everyone to be allowed to move with you.
 Knowing well who and what you want to be, you should also be able to know what kind of friend's personality that can fit in. Most of times, you will need real friends, classmates, job mates, family members to entrust with this great responsibility.
You will need someone to tell you "go on" "try again, it's gonna be better", "you are the best one to get through this", " this task is not for everyone, but you", "Though you was struck, it was a stopover to rise stronger",... These are people worth living with. They just push you when you feel drained and blood finished. They build in a winning strength from the least whose meaning you even ignore. You will need to remove from you repertoire the other group of people who are always trying to convince you "You are not the best candidate", "you are not the smartest", " you know that is a game of others", " your strengths are not enough to get it through",... . These sometimes never sleep packaging the heavier burden to annex to your ship once you depart... They are sometimes kind and showing you that they are the ones who care the most about you. However, they have a virus of failure and the longer you live with them, the more you get contaminated with their ever-losing minds. They may not know it, but you are the best positioned to leave them and teach them by actions and results. Get rid of them even though you feel you still need them.
 Did you know that a single expired fish can just kill a whole ton of fish? It's just the same. There are times when you need to be not so apologetic and so kind, so shy, so understanding... . Revolution needed. You need someone around who can get out the water while you get drown. You need someone stronger more understanding, who not only enjoys your company in good moments, but also in hard times when others are getting you far from their plans. That one who can tolerate your failure and show you a better way to go and win again.
 #Get a candle friend
#Get a Motivator
#Get a company who merits to be
 © 2018 Cédrick Irakoze

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